by Alan Murray on Thursday, March 18th, 2010 | Dating, Love, Relationship | No Comments

Meeting somebody and falling in love is a special time in your life. It can be easy to fall in love but how do you keep this going? Many couples fall into a routine and take each other for granted. You think you know what your partner is thinking and rely on that. Hidden feelings or resentment can linger in any relationship.

1. Keep your promises – Not following through on commitments is something that can be a source of anger. If you can’t keep a promise then talk to your partner about this. Don’t just let it lie and assume that will not bother about it.

2. Don’t push your partner away – Share your feelings, explain any dreams or fears you have to your partner. Explain to them what you want out the relationship and were you want it to head.

3. Don’t run down your partner either in front of them or behind their back. Everybody moans about their partner, but be careful as this can be a destructive thing in a relationship. Try to keep any criticism as constructive and remember if they do change make sure you appreciate it.

4. What hidden expectations has your partner got? You need to understand what they are, some people don’t like to share them but it’s all best out in the open. Do they want children? Do they expect you to earn more? Do they expect you to get married? Talking about subjects like this will help you understand your partner more.

5. Touching and kissing – Don’t let this two very important parts of a relationship go.

6. Sex! There is no way round it sex is very important to a relationship. Getting you to talk to each other and understanding what turns them on is really important. Talking about sex can be difficult especially if it is about something that is not right. Find a tactful way of mentioning something. Remember to praise the good parts of your sexual relationship.

7. If your relationship has hit a bad patch – think about the reasons for this – can you make changes to relive the pressures that are causing the problems? What are the things that initially attracted you to each other? Go back to the basics and go on from there. If you have had children try to make sure you have time with just you and your partner are together. Get the kids off to the grandparents and go out for a special dinner. Do you have a favorite restaurant that you went to when you were courting?

8. Your partner should be your best friend – What are your partners dream and hops for the future? If your partner is down and needs picking up then this is what you need to do! Be there for them when they need you.

Alan Murray is the webmaster of the site www.baby-names.tv

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by wildcherry on Thursday, March 11th, 2010 | Dating, Love, Relationship | No Comments

Most of the time when we date someone, we only look at their shortcomings. So here’s a list for those of you that’s looking for a good guy!

1. He is open to sharing his bad traits
He doesn’t appear to keep any secrets, he is willing to tell you things that might make a lesser man uncomfortable. A man like this has learned that complete self acceptance means your “flaws” define you, which is not necessarily a bad thing.

2. Love kids and is a good father figure
This not only shows quality of character but a level of commitment to others beyond himself. I know a guy that has three kids in two countries and doesn’t care about any of them. A good father figure means the kids can learn and listen to him how to be a good adult.

3. Is passionate but not angry
Passion and anger is often a mixed trait, you want a guy that is passionate about his life and dreams but not angry! Since it is often hard to identify passion from aggression, some businesses conduct interviews during a game of golf, and nothing brings out emotional outburst more than a nice slice. If you don’t happen to have a golf course handy, make him sit through a drama movie like “Dear John” and if he doesn’t punch something you might want to bet on this horse, if he cries too much then he might be a cry baby LOL!!

4. Respectful enough not to look at others while with you
Any guy that is out with you but can not control his eyes is a sorry excuse for a man.

5. Is Open to communication
Good communication is someone that not only is willing to listen but to truly “hear” your meaning. Don’t you just hate those people that don’t listen and are only waiting to talk!? Now, what did you say again?

6. Doesn’t get jealous, except when appropriate

It is important for him to show he actually gives a shit when you go to the “Chippendales” male strip show in Vegas, he may not even care but at least he has the wits to fake it well enough so you feel cared about.

7. Is different from you, expands your life

Being with someone different is crucial to growth because all of us need to push the boundaries of our innermost fears. Maybe, you love numbers and always get you taxes in months before they’re due, maybe he is an artist that hasn’t filed taxes in 10 years. This is a good match, you may need to relax your sphincter a bit, and he needs to stop hugging so many trees.

8. Able to grow with you

The ultimate gift is being with someone that is moving at the same speed you are. It doesn’t have to be in the same direction nessesarily, but there has to be growth. If one partner is stagnant and you are reaching for the stars there will inevitably be a time when you will grow so much, that one of you will be sabotage the relationship out of intimidation/frustration. Relationship balance is something we can control if aware of, although there is a limit and this is why, income gap, career gap and attraction gap, are potentially so dangerous. Don’t marry a gardener if you aspire to be a doctor.

9. Likes to exercise
Maybe you don’t exercise and if that is the case, damn it! You should!! Guys and girls that work out regularly are radically different than people that don’t.

10. Works to live not lives to work (unless it is his passion)
There is a fine line between someone that is a workaholic or has passion for their work. A workaholic is someone that works for works sake, the same reason an alcoholic drinks. It is a way to escape life, as long as they are “busy” or “drunk” life can’t “get them.” Someone with a passion for their work is someone you want to be around, someone that can inspire you!

THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE out of the list is he should Accepts you the way you are
This is super important, he doesn’t like the way you look? Doesn’t like your job? Your clothes, Sister, or dog? Big problem, that will probably be reconciled by you picking him apart as well. Unfortunately, a lot of men and women will be fully accepting of their partner when the are in a good space themselves. The second they feel uncomfortable with their own life situation they will project this frustration upon you in a displacement maneuver. This when you maneuver them over to a mirror and force them to take a good long look!

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by wildcherry on Friday, February 26th, 2010 | Dating, Love | No Comments

Here are the top 10 signs a girl displays when she’s interested! These are in no particular order:

1–CONSTANT ATTENTION–If she’s taking every opportunity to go see you, in class, at work, or wherever, it usually means she’s taking time out of her day to check you out. Even if it isn’t 24-7, if she does it rather often (i.e., more often than your buddies go to see you regularly), it’s a good sign of interest. She usually makes it look casual, really; almost hard to tell that she had to blow off other responsibilities to see you. The only thing she WON’T blow off to see you for is to hang out with her girlfriends (unless she’s insanely in love with you). Calling is also indicative.

2–LOOKING–Dead give-away. If, as she walks by you, or you go by her, she sneaks a glance at you, and does this pretty often, she wants you. If it happens almost all the time (in mathematical terms, at least 80% of the time), it’s that she’s craving that attention mentioned above.

3–TOUCHING–Another good give-away. Now, there is friendly touching, which is an ocassional pat on the arm, back or shoulder. Friendly touching is usually quick and has very little contact. This is so the girl doesn’t give you the wrong idea. But if she’s interested, the time of impact will be greatly increased. She’ll keep her hand there for a good long while, and ocassionally will rub your back or arm.

4–PROXIMITY–If, when you hang out or are just talking, she stands/sits really close to you, that’s another good sign. Most girls who are just your buddies won’t do this, unless that’s their way. But, for my experiences, all the girls that were interested in me got up close and personal, some to the point that I could smell their breath (”You had tuna for lunch today, right?”). They love to get near you when they’re into you.

5–SUGGESTIVENESS–When a major social event comes near (parties, dances, get-togethers, etc.), they’ll waffle around the issue of going, but not having someone to go with. This isn’t all that common, especially if nothing happens in your town, but I’ve had this one used on me. Also, they’ll try and hint around getting your phone number or giving you theirs. One girl I knew asked to borrow my electronic organizer; when she gave it back, it said, “Call ” and had her number on it. She told me, “Just kidding.” Duh–if she was kidding, she wouldn’t have done that. The point is that they’ll usually be waffling around this issue. Some are more direct about it, though.

6–MIMICKING–Oftentimes, they’ll try and act the way you act, or do the things you do. For instance, with some of the more, shall I say, academically-challenged girls I’ve met, I’ll act totally different than they do (i.e., I don’t use “like” every four seconds). I am usually very formal and educated in my speech. Gradually, they became this way, too. I’ve said this before, ’cause it’s my greatest achievement–getting one of those inner-city gangbanger chicks to say “hypothesis” and “egotistical.” Now, THAT’S interest! Also, if you do something physical, and she does it often and consistently, it’s also a good sign. Speech patterns are better indicators, though.

7–BODY ORIENTATION and MOVEMENT–Kinda ties in with “Proximity,” but different. When the girl’s talking to you, she’ll lean towards you and try to really follow your conversation with body movements. Leaning is really common; movements that follow your conversation aren’t as common, especially with shy, uptight girls. But the majority will exhibit some enthusiasm. Such movements include changing facial expressions a lot (to avoid looking bored or fazed out), hand and arm flailing (looking interested), and shaking legs (not so common).

8–PUPPY EYES–Dead-give-away. If they give you the look, you’ve won the battle already. You know the look–when they look at you, wtih a smile, their head tilted downward and to the side, and look at you with those big eyes, with a “come-hither” look. It may be accompanied with a request to go to a social event or to her/your place.

9–TALKING ABOUT YOU–Good give-away. If your friends or her friends tell you about how much she’s talked about you, it means she’s interested and wants the world to hear it, for approval. And if she gets it (which she almost certainly will, unless you’re a real bastard, and even then she may still go for you), you’ll usually hear about it.

10–DRESSES NICELY ON OCASSION–If you’re going out, or are meeting her at a time you don’t normally see her, or if you only see her once every so often, an interested girl may dress nicer when seeing you. Kinda hard to tell when you’re in school, since she could be trying to attract others. But on those ocassions that you may see her outside of school, or outside of work, she may try and get some extra attention. Also, putting on a fragrance is greatly indicative. You’ll know it when she has it on–believe me, it’ll be everywhere.

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by wildcherry on Thursday, February 18th, 2010 | Dating, Love, Relationship | No Comments

The first tip for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don’t have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl’s attention. Be unique, that’s all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don’t drink or smoke like any other loser.

How to make her fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style.

Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you’ll get to know what she’s into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up.

A shoulder to lean on and a good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don’t hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she’ll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don’ts of life. Don’t forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.

Make the girl feel special; because she’s someone’s friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.

In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she’s your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.

Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go ‘my my’ and her heart will sing your name all the year round.

Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o’clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can’t sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me.

No matter how many dates you take her, don’t make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don’t kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.

The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can’t have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she’s actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she’ll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you’ll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you’ll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.

Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.

The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.

I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the happiest girl in the world!

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by wildcherry on Thursday, February 18th, 2010 | Dating, Love, Relationship | No Comments

It is possible to fall in love with two people at the same time. When you find that you are having feelings for two people at the same time, this can be a very difficult time. You may be having some feelings of love in the same way for these two people. This is going to be something that you will have to lay out on the table in front of you so that you can see where your feelings are coming from.

It is possible to be in a loving relationship and still find yourself having feelings for someone else. This is completely normal and it may just be temporary. Maybe this other person has done something nice for you or has shown you some kind of interest for one reason or another. This may trigger some emotional feelings towards this person and you may not understand why or how you can stop them.

There may be two people that are so very different from each other but for some reason they both have caught your attention and you like them for separate reasons. This is possible and you will have to come to terms with which one is going to be better for you. You must think about your feelings for both people and why you are having these feelings.

How do I determine which one is the right mate for me?

You may wander how you are ever going to decide between the two people. You will have to figure out which person is right for you. This will take a lot of thinking on your part. You will have to figure out what it is you want to have in life. What type of life do you want and which person will be better for you. You will have to spend some time with both of the people so that you can better determine which person you have more of a connection with.

Attraction is the main reason why people want to be together. They may have some sort of physical or emotional attraction for the other person. When this is the case, you have to dig down deeper and find out if there is another reason why you are so infatuated with this person. You will need to spend time together talking and finding out about one another so that you can better determine who is going to be best for you.

How do I make a wise decision without hurting both of them?

If you think that it is best to be open with both of the people that you are attracted to, you may find that this will end both relationships. Some may not take the news that you are in love with two people very well and they may decide to make the decision for you by ending it. If this is the case, you may have some relief knowing that the problem has now been solved and even though it is over, you may feel a little more relieved. This feeling may be one that you have anticipated for a long time.

There are some people that just decide it is impossible to choose between the two and it is a wise choice to let them both go. This is going to be a hard decision to make; however, in some cases, it is the only possible outcome. You cannot string someone along and make him or her wait for you because you cannot make up your mind. You may have a strong connection with both partners, but you know that it is wrong and you have to do the right thing.

The main thing that you need to remember is that you have to do what is best for you. It is important to make sure that you have your best interest in mind. You need to put yourself ahead of anyone else so that you can have it all and make all of your dreams come true.

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by wildcherry on Saturday, January 9th, 2010 | Dating, Love | No Comments

I hope this information will help you avoid future misunderstandings :P.

“Fine”:
This is the word a woman uses at the end of any argument that she feels she is right about, and just wants you shut up. NEVER use “fine” (or worse: “just fine”) to describe how a woman looks. This will cause you to have one of those arguments.

“Five minutes”:
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it’s an even trade

“Nothing”:
This means something and you should be on your toes. “Nothing” is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. “Nothing” usually signifies an argument that will last “Five Minutes” and end with the word “Fine.”

“Go Ahead” (with raised eyebrows):
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over “Nothing” and will end with the word “Fine.”

“Go Ahead” (normal eyebrows):
This means “I give up” or “do what you want because I don’t care”. You will get a raised eyebrow “Go ahead” in just a few minutes, followed by “Nothing” and “Fine” and she will talk to you in about “Five Minutes” when she cools off.

“Loud Sigh”:
This is not actually a word, but is still often a verbal statement very misunderstood by men. A “Loud Sigh” means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over “Nothing.”

“Soft Sigh”:
Again, not a word, but a verbal statement. “Soft Sighs” are one of the few things that some men actually understand. She is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe and she will stay content.

“Oh”:
This word followed by any statement is trouble. Example; “Oh, let me get that”. Or, “Oh, I talked to him about what you were doing last night.” If she says “Oh” before a statement, RUN, do not walk, to the nearest exit. She will tell you that she is “Fine” when she is done tossing your clothes out the window, but do not expect her to talk to you for at least 2 days.

“That’s Okay”:
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can say to a man. “That’s Okay” means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you retributions for what ever it is that you have done. “That’s Okay” is often used with the word “Fine” and used in conjunction with a raised eyebrow “Go ahead”. At some point in the near future when she has plotted and planned, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble

“Please Do”:
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance to tell the truth, so be careful and you shouldn’t get a “That’s Okay”.

“Thanks”:
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint; just say you’re welcome.

“Thanks a lot”:

This is much different from “Thanks”. A woman will say, “Thanks a lot” when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have hurt her in some callous way, and will be followed by the “Loud Sigh”. Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the “Loud Sigh”, as she will only tell you “Nothing.”

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by bintangkecil on Saturday, November 14th, 2009 | Dating, Love | No Comments

According to a new study, a person’s physical appearance allows others to form surprisingly accurate first impressions. So you may want to think twice about what kind of image you’re projecting with these traits dudes check out immediately.

1. Your Smile

Does it seem sweet and genuine? Does it seem awkward and forced? Does it seem like you ate a sesame-seed and parsley salad for lunch based on what’s lodged between every single one of your teeth?

2. Your Hair

Guys have no idea what split ends are, and if you mention roots, they just think of the band. But they do look to see if your hair looks 1. soft and 2. as though it would smell good. So don’t request “The Gosselin” at the salon, and wash it every so often. That’s all guys ask.

3. Your Cleavage

Newsflash: Dudes like to look at your chest. Now, that’s not to say they think all women should unbutton their shirts to their bellybuttons at funerals. (Though really, who are guys to judge?) But they will notice how you’re showing off what you’ve got.

4. Your Makeup

If you’re wearing so much makeup that it looks like you’ve painted an entirely new face on top of your actual face, guys will wonder if you’re trying to cover up some bizarre deformation—or if you’re Gotham City’s most dangerous criminal mastermind.

5. Your Skin

You know that blemish you’ve been obsessing over all day because it’s so huge? Chances are guys won’t even notice. What will they notice? If you look like a jaundiced Oompa-Loompa because of overenthusiastic tanning.

6. Your Bag

Are all women who haul around big purses—in other words, cavernous rucksacks stuffed full of old receipts, emergency sweaters, and half-used bottles of hand sanitizer—high maintenance? Maybe not. But guys will go ahead and assume they are anyway.

Source: Cosmopolitan
Photo: SuperStock

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by nate on Monday, November 9th, 2009 | Dating, Family, Love, Love Story, Relationship, Tips | No Comments

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by wildcherry on Tuesday, October 6th, 2009 | Dating, Love | No Comments

Could you be scaring away men before they even approach you?

You Look Angry
Hey, perma-scowl: Swap the pouty lips for a genuine, friendly smile and your eye candy for the night will be more likely to approach you. The majority of Answerology men agreed that an unfriendly facial expression will keep them from approaching you, so flash those pearly whites at the guy you’ve been eyeing!

You’re Not Locking Eyes
What’s harder than approaching a stranger? Approaching a stranger who hasn’t acknowledged your existence with even a brief look. “I need to see, by her looking and smiling at me, that she wants me to approach her. If I don’t see it, I don’t approach,” says Anonymous. So next time you think he catches you looking at him, don’t look away — hold your stare for a few seconds so he knows you’re looking — and that you like what you see.

You’re Too Flirtatious
A chip on your shoulder is a turnoff to any guy waiting to make his approach — but so is the other extreme. istillhatescreennames is put off when women cross the line from friendly to flirty … with everyone they see. “If she’s flirting with lots of guys. Nothing like a woman who is basically telling everyone in the place that she’s open for business with anyone,” he says. “Flirting with everyone” would put him off, agrees Anonymous, adding another pet peeve: “Grinding out on the dance floor (yeah, it’s fun to look at but I like to look at strippers too … but I wouldn’t take any home to meet my mom).” Sure, he’ll notice you if you’re the loudest, most aggressive girl in the room — but not in a good way.

You’re Surrounded by Friends
Admit it — your awesome group of friends can be a little intimidating, especially when a strange guy approaches to hit on just one of you. seanc writes, “Being surrounded by more than one friend makes her less approachable because of the embarrassment of being rejected in front of more people.” Make sure you’re giving him the opportunity to approach you alone — check out the jukebox and linger for a bit, or offer to grab the next round of drinks for your friends.

Source:Lifestyle

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by wildcherry on Saturday, October 3rd, 2009 | Dating, Love, Relationship | No Comments

You probably don’t find anything particularly interesting about a quirky or unique feature you have, but it could be one of the things she’s drawn to. It probably represents something deeper and alluring that’s the cause for attraction, such as sophistication, mystery or an edge. When pulling off what makes you unique, remember to up your confidence levels so you maximize your pulling power.

Here are five surprising things she’s attracted to and why:

Scars
That girl you’re having dinner with for the first time doesn’t know the stories behind that mark on your skin which vaguely resembles a scorpion, but she’s fascinated by it. If you doubt what scars can do for your magnetism, just take a look at singer Seal. His scars have made him much more interesting than he would have been without them. Scars also provide men with a rugged manliness and mystery, which is always sexy.

Research backs up why scars are a hit with women. According to science news website, Science Daily, scientists at Liverpool and Sterling University have found that women may associate scars with health and bravery. Scars not only show you’re a courageous guy who’ll take on his opponents, but you’re tough enough to outlive them. Refrain from killing the mystery when it comes to those other silly scars, though. It’s best to keep it to yourself that the scar on your forehead was from a clumsy, drunken fall in the garden.

House plants
Of course she wants you to be nurturing, but just how does she gauge your tenderness levels? Interestingly, a way for women to do this is by noticing how you treat a living thing that, unlike her, you won’t be trying to get into bed later. That means your house plants will be up for inspection. It takes a patient, affectionate man to grow healthy plants, and with our trend of going green, a woman who pays attention to how you cultivate plants is also seeing your nurturing spirit in a much bigger picture.

Nuts, UK’s No. 1 selling men’s weekly magazine, polled 1,500 women on what personality traits they find most attractive in men, and caring for the environment grabbed the top spot. By adopting a greener habit, you’re also winning: Experts say as little as 30 minutes a week taking care of the garden can improve your health and performance in bed. That’s a good reason to trim the hedge, right?

Sweat
Yes, sweat can be sexy. Don’t believe us? Well, ask yourself this: Why does your girlfriend like to watch those football matches? Is it because she’s interested in the game or perving over the players? Chances are, although the former is likely, the latter makes much more sense when it comes to sweat being attractive. There’s something sexy about men running up and down a field in the blazing heat being in need of a cool shower.

That certain something is all about the chemicals found in your natural cologne. Researchers at the University of California at Berkeley have found that a chemical in male sweat called androstadienone causes women’s hormone levels and sexual arousal to increase. So the next time you meet her for a date, let her join you for an afternoon jog. With you exuding those androstadienones, her heart rate will be increasing for more reasons than one. But don’t make a habit of it, please — sweatiness is best reserved to a few activities, and should never replace your antiperspirant.

Gray hair
In a society that consistently sends out messages of youthfulness being attractive, it’s common for men to consider coloring their gray hair back to what it was before. But gray hair is no longer reserved for your grandpa; on a younger guy it can ooze sexiness. A good example is 47-year-old actor John Slattery, whose gray makes him look charming, suave and experienced. If you need further proof that silver is the new black, a survey by Match.com found that a whopping 72% of women think gray hair is hot.

Eyeglasses
Who would have thought geek would be chic? According to studies by the University of Stockholm, women are more attracted to men who wear glasses than those who don’t. You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure out why — they appear intelligent. And, if a man is intelligent, it means he’ll more than likely mentally stimulate his woman. Many women will tell you there’s nothing quite like a witty, smart conversation to impress them.

The lure of intelligence has also got to do with biology. Researchers in New Mexico gave 400 Vietnam War veterans extensive mental tests and later (weirdly enough) asked them to provide sperm samples. The results showed that the men who scored

Source:Askmen

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